feat: say which way the unread action will go, and hide it when it cannot

Item 112, and 99 and 147 with it: the user's note is one design across
all three. A union is not a state. ThreadSummary::tags is notmuch's
union over the conversation, so a thread holding even one unread message
answered "unread" and the thread toggle always chose "mark read". There
was no input that reached "mark thread unread" on a mixed thread, which
is the thread a user wants it for.

The thread toggle becomes two absolute actions, mark_thread_read and
mark_thread_unread. Neither takes a default chord, at the user's choice:
Ctrl+Alt+U meant whichever direction the union picked, and since item
132 a shortcut is a chosen subset rather than a requirement. It is now
unbound.

The message-scoped toggle stays a toggle, because one message has a real
two-valued state, and its label now names the direction it will go. On a
selection with no single state the entry is hidden rather than labelled
wrongly, chosen over disabling it; the thread submenu is the route then,
and its entries are absolute.

selectionTagPresence() is the three-valued predicate that needed to
exist. everySelectedRowHasTag() delegates to it and keeps its two-valued
answer, which is all a direction needs; a label needs the third value.
The refresh is keyed on the model's dataChanged as well as on the
selection, so a write moves the label without reselecting and none of
the six optimistic-update call sites has to remember.

Three mutations fail: restoring the union predicate reports the user's
original symptom, showing the action on a mixed selection, and dropping
the dataChanged refresh. The suite is 37 of 38, the failure being item
136 on an unrelated path. Four new strings translated, lrelease reports
0 unfinished.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01HFuRPtzFrSxCQjFk6tq7gD

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